I stumbled across this quote today and thought I would share it with you all:
'I am not a product of my circumstances.I am a product of my decisions’
Never forget that you have the power to shape your future. Life may have presented us with difficult barriers and obstacles, but that does not mean that they cannot be overcome. Yes the journey may be long and treacherous, but that does not make them impassable.
You have the power to stand up for yourself today; for your future wherever that may be. Don’t let a mental illness hold you back any more. You are important. You matter. Reach out and ask for support; because that does not make you weak, it makes you strong.You have that power. You can make the change. You can change your life.

I stumbled across this quote today and thought I would share it with you all:

'I am not a product of my circumstances.
I am a product of my decisions’

Never forget that you have the power to shape your future.

Life may have presented us with difficult barriers and obstacles, but that does not mean that they cannot be overcome. Yes the journey may be long and treacherous, but that does not make them impassable.

You have the power to stand up for yourself today; for your future wherever that may be. Don’t let a mental illness hold you back any more. You are important. You matter. Reach out and ask for support; because that does not make you weak, it makes you strong.

You have that power. You can make the change. You can change your life.

This morning I took some time out to do some self-care. I haven’t painted my nails in months. I feel guilty for this but that’s completely illogical. I am allowed to take care of myself and put myself first for once. This is okay. I am okay.

This morning I took some time out to do some self-care. I haven’t painted my nails in months. I feel guilty for this but that’s completely illogical. I am allowed to take care of myself and put myself first for once. This is okay. I am okay.

mybeautifulmummy asked:

Keep fighting as hard as you can in the week you have left at uni, and be gentle with yourself. The anorexia will try and fight back, but remember it is *just* thoughts. They will pass, and you don't have to act on them. They will get less strong, and you will get through it. And you will have uni to look forward to and so much else in life. (Oh, and it definitely is a small world - I go to uni in Chichester!). Look after yourself, and take things one step at a time xx

Thank you hun, it means a lot to hear this. I just want this week to be over already; at least it is nearly one day down I suppose…xxx

Anonymous asked:

hey kitty! i just wanted to let you know that i am having to take a gap year from college to work on getting myself well and it is such a painful decision because all of my friends will be in college etc...but my health is important and so is yours! keep fighting! xox

I am so proud of you for accepting to have this year off in order to take care of yourself. I know right now it feels like the end of the world and that everything is falling apart, but like you said, your health is much more important. College will be there in a years time, and hopefully you will be in a better position to enjoy and take part in the ways you hope to. I am here for you anon, if you ever need to talk to someone then just pop a message in my inbox and I will try to reply as quickly as I can. Remember, you are not alone okay? We can get through this year; we can beat this illness xxxxx

Anonymous asked:

Hello. I've been following you for a little while now and I just want to say you are a beautiful soul and I hope you get where you need/want to be. Never give up. Lots of love xx

You are the sweetest, thank you so much. I am sending all my love to you anon xxxxxx

Anonymous asked:

I'm not sure of any of the particulars of your problem but I wanted you to know that no matter what your appearance is, you're already a gorgeous person. That doesn't change with weight or makeup. I remember someone that I didn't know very well. They were overweight but after getting to know them I got a crush on them cause I could see who they where, not what they looked like. It literally changed their (my perception) appearance. I don't know if that helps or not but I thought I'd share.

This is really sweet of you to share with me anon, thank you xxx

Trying to make an effort for tonight. Feeling a little better.
I think I’ve put a bit too much make up on - one of my flat mates said I look so different…well let’s try and cover the paleness shall we. I hope tonight goes okay, I haven’t been out since freshers.

Anonymous asked:

You write beautifully x

That is very kind of you to say anon - I am really not very good. I never used to be any good at English, but, well, I enjoy writing sometimes. Today I just really needed a distraction xxxxx

elsaearth asked:

Kitty I am so unbelievably proud of you for making the right choice for you. You are definitely not going to be 'too old' if you choose to go back in a few years or when you feel ready, you have so much ahead of you and I salute you! love you lots <3

I love you Elsa xxxxxxxxxxxx

Anonymous asked:

hi kitty i've been following your blog for some time already and i know you've been beating yourself up a lot recently. just wanted to let you know that its alright to withdraw from uni and care for yourself because only when we are stronger can we be more forward-looking and to truly ready to acknowledge the chances we have in life. see this as an opportunity to become even better and quit entertaining thoughts that don't help you. wishing you all the best x

oh my goodness, thank you so much for sending me this message. You have a very kind soul anon, I hope that things are going okay for you and that you have had a nice weekend xxxxxx